PFMs on the Town: Bday Bash at Seasons 52

what's more fun than having dinner with friends? having dinner with your friends on your birthday at Seasons 52.  as you can see, we had a good time sharing drinks, stories and really good food (though they need to step up their brussel sprout recipe lol).  most of the pics show all of us testing out the panorama camera feature on the iphone.  yes, iphone syndrome is a real sickness!

i had a great time and the best part is we've decided to make sure we do it much more often, instead of reserving the fun for birthdays. woo hoo!! that works for me :)  for now though, the birthday celebration continues!! and TGIF!!! xo Sesheta

Spiritual PFM: Little Reminders

it could have been really easy to slip into a bad mood because of the rain on my birthday (especially because that is not what the weather said yesterday, smh).  in fact, i was already on my way to that state when, one of my good friends stopped me in my tracks by saying, "you bring the sunshine, birthday girl!"  i was starting to commit to the funk but her little reminder helped to bring me back to seeing the lighter side, my silver lining.  as i sat and watched the rain subside and then witnessed the sky becoming brighter and lighter, i claimed it; i bring the sunshine!!  in one instant, my mood was lifted.  it really can be that simple - to choose to be one way or another, happy or funky.  i chose happy and i was reminded that i should be coming from a place of gratitude today and always.  ... so here goes:

Give thanks and praise for those little reminders

and for those beautiful beings that remind you.

give thanks for sunshine and rain, rainbows and clouds;

give thanks for all things sparkly, blingy, glittery, shiny; :)

give thanks for my family - blood and adopted;

give thanks for yarn, beads, crystals;

give thanks for color;

give thanks for life, for the blessing of another day of breath 

and the promise of a new year.

ashe!

xo Sesheta

PFM Confessional: I love my Mommy

just the three of us - my sis, mom and me

what happens when we get together 

this post is dedicated to my Mom.  it's a public love letter to wish her Happy Birthday!! it saddens me that we are so far apart on her special day because it would be nice to be able to spend time with her today.  instead, i am thinking of her and sending her love so that she can have a great day with her ATL family since we can't be there.  

with my sister and i out of the house, my mom made an exodus down south to do something that she has always wanted to do - move to Atlanta.  though it's hard to have her so far, i am proud of her for following through.  both my sister and i have become the women we are because we embody her strength and courage.  i am thankful that she is never more than a call away because there are many times that there is no one but my mom who can make me feel better. :)

the above pics were taken at my oldest son's graduation.  these are some of my favorite pics  of us because we aren't able to get together all that often anymore and to have it captured on "film" makes me smile.  

...so Mommy, though i don't have more than love to offer you right now, (you know i promise you the world as soon as i can give it to you lol, but they don't accept credit) my love is good as gold- especially when it comes to you.  thank you for everything you do, seen and unseen.  i miss you and wish you were here.  have a wonderful time celebrating you because we are celebrating having you in our lives. love you xo me

PFMs on the Town: Brooklyn Brewery

last Friday, i had the pleasure of hanging at Brooklyn Brewery for the first time.  a bunch of my friends, mostly my ol' Wesleyan cronies, as well as family gathered in honor of my hubby's birthday.  we had sooo much fun.   we had a chance to try lots of new Brooklyn beers while in the company of good friends.  

it was hard not to be swept up by the hipster vibe that was all over the area.  located in Williamsburg, (right around the corner from both Beacon's closet and Brooklyn Bowl), the place was teeming with brooklynites (both native and newly relocated) and tourists all enjoying good company, music and, of course, brew.  we have already decided that we have to make it a regular excursion - especially while the weather is warm.  i for one am really looking forward to going back.  ...but the night didn't end here for us; once we closed down the brewery, we headed to Brooklyn Bowl for food and bowling.  beer and bowling - love it!! lol

i hope that you have been using the summer as an excuse to get out and enjoy life. being the mom of three and also having been married forever, it's so easy to get stuck in the regular routine.  i love every opportunity to remember that i am still young and fabulous and looking to have fun - even if my favorite place to hang is on my couch lol.  tonight, the hubby and i are meeting one of our fave couples to dance the night away while the legendary Q-tip spins on the ones and twos at Irving Plaza.  how are you starting off your weekend?  however you spend it, hope you have a blast! xo sesheta

PFMs on the Town: Saturday Night Lights

Sarah Brodsky...amazing!

Minerva Lions in action

That's me with the chocolate boots!

The weekend plan was to continue celebrating birthdays with my brother (turning the big 3-0) and some other lucky fellow Sagittarians on Saturday night. This meant a sweet low-key Friday night on the couch cuddled up with my man, our little kitty Stewie, and a soon-to-be-finished crocheted hoodie that I was excited to give as a gift. Do you know how challenging it is to be working with yarn around around a slightly crazy cat? Well it ain't easy but he's cute so I let it go.

My rock star bro always does it up right and this time was no exception! We headed to Brooklyn with friends for a delicious dinner at the Oak Wine Bar and then on to Big Sky Works. This definitely was the place to be if you wanted to catch a party that combined killer bands with amazing aerial acts, a DJ, and a light show. The Minerva Lions were especially fantastic (not that I'm biased, but hey I am related to the lead singer.) Hope you all had a splendid weekend. And look- here we are already at Wednesday...yay!

PS Since I really didn't get any detailed outfit photos worthy of posting, here's a re-creation...laid out on my bed. I wore this Saturday night and loved it so much that I wanted to give you a feel for the concept of the look. Sparkly sequins, faded black skinny jeans, and chocolate knee-high boots topped off with a fitted blazer. The finale was our latest earring creation- the Peacock Fan Fares with chain, sparkle and rich peacock colors that really popped against my hair and outfit. Olive, charcoal, and chocolate...loving it!

(Sequin Tank- J.Crew, AG Rosebud Jeans- Anthropologie, Cartonnier Blazer- Anthropologie, Frye Paige Cuff Boots- Tobi, Feather Fanfare Earrings {not yet available}- MavenFresh, Latico Clutch- Ooh La La)

Daily Outfit: Orange Glow

I could tell you that this was a Thanksgiving outfit...but then I'd be lying. I just didn't get around to posting this cozy look and figured my orange felt hat was in the spirit of the holiday, so here it is. I spent the past 5 days hanging out with loved ones, eating lots of food and drinking lots of wine....so you will have to excuse the lack of posts! 

November is a favorite month of mine for a few reasons; I really enjoy Thanksgiving (vegetarian French Onion Soup is the best), I love that the weather is still so fall-like, it's my birthday (yesterday), and it's my little bro's birthday month too! Can't wait for more celebrating this weekend at a rock 'n roll aerial picture show extravaganza in Brooklyn...what can I say, my brother knows how to party. And maybe this time I will even bring the camera!

(Juicy Couture Sweater- Shopbop, Tunic Tee- H&M, J Brand Jeans- Anthropologie, Corona Fedora- Anthropologie, Woven Loafers- Vintage, Scarf- Anthropologie, Earrings- a boutique in Greenport)

champagne treat

birthday goodness

porch sunset

Just a few photos from these recent lovely days gone by, and now it's back to reality! Reminder ladies...your chance to enter and win a MF Crochet Mobius ends tomorrow...

PFM Obsession: Birthday Wishes

My birthday is coming up real soon, and so are the holidays. This time of year I get all organized...I go through my closet, and decide what I need more of/have too much of. And then I purge, donate, and drop subtle hints to those that love me. Thus my wishlist... oh and it also makes for some enjoyable fashion inspiration.

1. I would wear these pants every day...

2. Been eyeing these bad boys for a while and now they are the last pair in my size, sigh. Sesheta and I share a special love for patterned leggings.

3. Coated black skinny jeans. Are they leather? Are they thigh-highs? They are so cool.

4. Would put this polka dot button-down underneath a sweater as my go-to look.

5. Yes I do need another denim shirt. This one has a great light color wash.

6. Cozy, cozy, cozy. And reversible!

7. Love the pop of cobalt blue and the cut of this blazer.

8. The designer is Everly and I'm into every piece of this affordable line including this lovely dress!

9. A drapey tough girl layer.

And there you have it. After looking this over I really seem to be feeling the rust colors of autumn with hints of black and pops of cobalt. Hmmmm. What are you wishing for this holiday season?

PS Enjoy the holiday tomorrow! Don't forget to enter our freebie for the chance to win a MavenFresh scarf!

PFMs on the town: Besito Birthday

happy birthday month to me!!

okay, so my birthday was over 15 days ago now, but that is soooo unimportant.  i know all of you have heard of birthday week or birthday month so a late celebration is definitely in order.  it was just what i needed!

a group of my co-workers (including Becca) finally got our schedules in order so that we could go eat, drink and be merry at Besito Mexican restaurant in Roslyn (out on Long Island - they actually have three locations altogether).  the ambiance was that of a little pueblo and the food was just as awesome.  while enjoying a round of the house special margarita and sangria, we chowed down on chips, salsa (super fresh tasting -i don't even normally like salsa!!) and, of course, guacamole (made table side and put in the most adorable little stone bowl).  Becca ordered the empanadas (veggie, of course) and i chose the taquitos de pescado or fish tacos.  can you say yummmmm??? i have been wanting to try this restaurant forever and it was well worth the wait.  to top it off due to my limits on dessert choices, who wouldn't want a candle lit scoop of mango sorbet? a sweet ending to a great night!  we all can't wait to do it again!

wine and patron - what more do i say??

these empanadas look good 

the fish tacos were deeelish

it's a little bear!

with guacamole filling lmao

yummy sorbet

this is what happens when you try to smile and blow at the same time lol

Hot out of the Workshop: Feather Fancy Earrings

so i haven’t posted in a while cuz i’ve been busy celebrating my birthday (which was on 10/10).  unfortunately, unlike Rebecca, i am horrible at remembering to document my travels.  this means i don’t have any fun pics to share of my birthday escapades…boo.  the only thing that i have that commemorates my special day is this pair of earrings.

after enjoying the beautiful weekend weather and hanging with friends the day before, i was totally thrilled to spend my actual b-day doing absolutely nothing.  when i say nothing, i mean laying on my couch (yes, despite the beautiful 80-something degree weather outside), catching up on tv and enjoying my free time.  when i decided it was time to do something “productive”, i whipped together this fabulous new style of feather danglies.  i’ve dubbed them Feather Fancy.  though feathers are def not new to MF, this new style is influenced by the current trend of feather hair clips and earrings.  i just love how the asymmetrical style and Swarovski crystals add some modern edge to the ancient art of feather adornment!  happy birthday to me!! as you can see they are already inspiring fun wardrobe combinations!!

if you want to add a pair of these lovelies to your MF collection, be sure to check out our etsy shop to grab one of these limited edition pairs!

oh yeah, by the way, i’ve got some more fashion history for you too - feathers in the hair have been around since the days of the Turtle Island people (commonly known as native americans)!  don’t you just love how trends just recycle over and over!

(Denim jacket - Hollister Co., Steel gray tank - Old Navy, Handkerchief skirt - unknown, Gray boots - Corso Como, Aviator sunglasses - Michael Kors, Thai Rose headband and Feather Fancy earrings - MavenFresh )